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Planning for Late-Stage Dementia and Hospice: A Family Guide

Understanding end-stage care, hospice eligibility, and ensuring comfort and dignity

Essential Information About Late-Stage Dementia and Hospice

Late-stage dementia, also called end-stage dementia, is the final phase when symptoms become severe and the person requires constant care. An estimated 1.8 million people in the United States are in the final stages of dementing illnesses. Understanding what to expect and when hospice care becomes appropriate helps families provide comfort and dignity during this difficult time.

Here's what you need to know:

  1. Late-stage dementia typically involves loss of ability to communicate, severe memory loss, inability to perform activities of daily living, difficulty swallowing, frequent infections, and being bedbound or unable to walk.
  2. Hospice eligibility requires a physician's certification that life expectancy is six months or less if the disease follows its normal course, and the person (or their power of attorney) elects hospice care.
  3. Hospice provides comprehensive support including pain and symptom management, skilled nursing care, medications and equipment, emotional and spiritual support, and caregiver respite.
  4. Plan ahead through advance care planning. Create advance directives, choose a healthcare proxy, and discuss end-of-life wishes while your loved one can still participate.
  5. Focus shifts from curing to comfort. Hospice care aims to keep your loved one comfortable, pain-free, and maintain dignity during the final stage of life.

On average, end-stage dementia lasts between one and two years, though timelines vary considerably. This guide helps you understand what happens in late-stage dementia, when hospice becomes appropriate, and how to plan for end-of-life care.

Understanding Late-Stage Dementia

Sometimes called "late-stage dementia," end-stage dementia is the stage in which dementia symptoms become severe to the point where a patient requires help with everyday activities. The person may also have symptoms that indicate that they are near the end of life.

What happens in late-stage dementia:

As dementia progresses into late-stage, the person loses awareness of recent events and their environment. Communication becomes severely impaired, with little to no verbal ability. They may forget basic functions like how to suck from a straw or swallow.

  • Unable to sit up without support, hold up their head, walk, or smile
  • Difficulty swallowing
  • Bedbound or requires constant assistance with mobility
  • Needs round-the-clock help with all activities of daily living
  • Sleeps most of the time and interacts very little with environment

Common complications:

  • Increased susceptibility to infections, particularly pneumonia
  • Difficulty swallowing increases risks for malnutrition, dehydration, and aspiration pneumonia
  • Significant and ongoing weight loss even with adequate feeding attempts
  • Recurrent infections despite antibiotic treatment as immune system weakens
  • Pressure ulcers (bedsores) from immobility
  • Frequent urinary tract infections

Pneumonia represents one of the most common causes of death, along with cardiovascular disease and sudden, unexplained deaths.

How long does late-stage dementia last:

While timelines vary individually, patients typically remain in the final stages of dementia for months to several years, depending on overall health and secondary conditions. People with Alzheimer's disease over the age of 70 were found to spend on average 4 years in the stage of advanced dementia. However, some people with dementia die before they reach the advanced stage, and individual experiences differ significantly.

Recognizing When It's Time for Hospice

Considering the slow decline of a patient with dementia, it can be difficult to determine when the time is right for hospice. In general, hospice patients are thought to have six months or less to live. Only a doctor can make a clinical determination of life expectancy.

Signs that indicate hospice may be appropriate:

  • Severe cognitive impairment with little to no verbal communication
  • Significant and ongoing weight loss
  • Recurrent infections such as pneumonia indicative of weakened immunity
  • Difficulty swallowing increasing risks for malnutrition or dehydration
  • Dependence on others for all daily activities
  • Inability to maintain sufficient fluid and calorie intake with 10% weight loss in the previous six months
  • Multiple hospitalizations within the past year
  • Development of pressure ulcers despite appropriate care
  • Medical complications including aspiration pneumonia, pyelonephritis, septicemia, or fever after antibiotics

The FAST scale and hospice eligibility:

Hospice admission criteria typically uses the FAST score (Functional Assessment Staging) to determine a prognosis of six months or less in patients with dementia. FAST Stage 7C is defined by the loss of the ability to walk independently with presence of limited speech and the need for assistance with all activities of daily living.

According to Medicare guidelines, in addition to being at least Stage 7 or beyond on the FAST scale, the occurrence of at least one of the medical complications mentioned above in the prior year indicates hospice eligibility.

When to start the conversation:

Families should begin the conversation about hospice care with a doctor when the patient begins to enter the later stages of Alzheimer's disease. The patient's neurologist or personal physician may recommend hospice when the time is right. However, patients and family members often must act as their own advocates to receive the care they need and deserve.

You, your loved one, or your trusted physician may request an evaluation to see if hospice care for dementia is an appropriate option. Calling hospice is getting help, not giving up. The sooner you call, the sooner you will gain access to the comfort, support, and quality of life hospice care provides.

What Hospice Provides for Dementia Patients

Hospice care focuses on comfort and dignity at the end of life. The primary purpose of hospice care is to manage pain and other symptoms during the last six months of life where treatments focus on comfort rather than curing the underlying disease.

Comprehensive interdisciplinary team:

Hospice is provided by a team of specially trained providers including:

  • Doctors and nurse practitioners who oversee the care plan
  • Registered nurses providing skilled nursing care
  • Home health aides assisting with personal care
  • Social workers offering counseling and advance care planning
  • Spiritual counselors addressing religious and existential concerns
  • Trained volunteers providing companionship and respite
  • Bereavement counselors supporting families through grief

This team model provides exceptional care addressing a whole-person approach and offering a unique framework to address the many domains that can impact quality of life and cause suffering.

Medical care and symptom management:

Hospice will design a plan that addresses pain, hydration, nutrition, skin care, recurrent infection, and agitation, all common problems associated with dementia. Pain management occurs even when the person cannot communicate pain levels.

Hospice coordinates and supplies all medications, medical supplies, and medical equipment related to the diagnosis to ensure patients have everything they need.

Care for patients occurs wherever they live: in their homes, long-term care facilities, or assisted living communities. If symptoms become too difficult to manage at home, inpatient hospice services can provide round-the-clock care until the patient is able to return home or to provide care during the final days.

Support for caregivers:

  • Respite care to allow caregivers relief
  • Counseling addressing emotional and spiritual impact
  • Support through anticipatory grief and stresses of caregiving
  • 24-hour on-call access to hospice staff for questions, concerns, or emergencies
  • Bereavement services, typically for 13 months following the loss

Advance Care Planning for End-of-Life

The cornerstone of care of patients with advanced dementia is advance care planning. Advance care planning should start early on in the disease process when the patient is still able to participate in the decision-making process.

Essential legal documents:

Your end-of-life wishes should include how you would like to experience care in the final stage of Alzheimer's. The first step should be filling out a written advance directive and choosing an appropriate surrogate decision maker.

  • Healthcare power of attorney designating someone to make medical decisions
  • Living will specifying desired medical interventions
  • POLST (Physician Orders for Life-Sustaining Treatment) form detailing specific treatment preferences
  • DNR (Do Not Resuscitate) orders if desired

Treatment decisions to consider:

Medical care for late-stage Alzheimer's disease may include the use, withdrawal, limitation, or refusal of treatment. Your advance directives should include your wishes for any life-sustaining treatment you desire.

  • CPR and resuscitation attempts
  • Mechanical ventilation
  • Feeding tubes for artificial nutrition and hydration
  • Hospitalization for acute problems
  • Antibiotics for infections
  • Dialysis
  • Comfort care only approaches

In a prospective study, more than 90% of the proxies stated that the goal of care was comfort. Advance care planning was associated with less tube feeding and contributed to minimize hospital admissions and increased the use of hospice structures. Research showed an association of written advance care planning and quality of care in the dying phase, with less emotional distress at the end of life such as fear and anxiety.

Discussing wishes with healthcare providers:

Once you have expressed your end-of-life wishes with your spouse or care partner, discuss them with your doctor. This helps ensure understanding of your preferences in advance.

  • Let your doctor know that you are completing advance directives and provide copies for medical records
  • Ask your doctor about his or her thoughts about hospice care and comfort level in carrying out your wishes
  • Treatment decisions should be guided by the patient's wishes and goals of care
  • Healthcare providers and patient's healthcare proxies must make shared decisions keeping the patient's best interest in mind

For comprehensive guidance on legal planning, see our articles on legal planning after dementia diagnosis and advance directives and living wills.

Understanding Comfort Care vs. Aggressive Treatment

As dementia progresses, families face decisions about how aggressively to treat complications and whether to pursue comfort-focused care.

What comfort care means:

Comfort care focuses on dignity and the quality of remaining life. It aims to keep you comfortable and pain-free until life ends naturally. Comfort care does not mean withholding all treatments.

A person can continue to receive any necessary medications for chronic conditions like diabetes or high blood pressure, as well as those that prevent pain and discomfort.

Comfort care eliminates medical treatments, tests, and procedures that may do more harm than good. This might include forgoing hospitalizations for pneumonia, declining feeding tubes when swallowing becomes impossible, avoiding aggressive treatment of infections, and focusing on symptom relief rather than life prolongation.

Common end-of-life decisions:

Feeding tubes:

Many families struggle with decisions about artificial nutrition when their loved one can no longer eat safely. Research shows that feeding tubes in advanced dementia do not prolong life, prevent aspiration pneumonia, or improve quality of life. Careful hand feeding focused on pleasure rather than nutrition often provides better outcomes and respects dignity.

Antibiotics for infections:

Recurrent infections become common in late-stage dementia. Families must decide whether to treat each infection with antibiotics or focus on comfort measures. Repeated antibiotic treatment may prolong dying rather than improve quality of life. Symptom management can provide comfort without aggressive intervention.

Hospitalization:

Transport to emergency departments and hospitalizations create confusion, fear, and discomfort for people with advanced dementia. Hospice and palliative care can manage most complications at home or in nursing facilities, avoiding the trauma of hospital transfers.

Making the Transition to Hospice Care

How to begin hospice services:

To begin hospice care, an individual must have a life expectancy of six months or less. A physician's referral is needed. If you believe your family member is in need of hospice services, communicate this to the physician currently providing care.

Before hospice care begins, the hospice team meets with the referring physician as well as the family to create an individualized care plan. The team takes into account the patient's condition and specific symptoms to determine what services are needed.

Hospice can be stopped at any time. Hospice services are usually available for as long as they are needed. If someone receiving hospice care lives beyond six months, services are usually still covered by Medicare, Medicaid, and many private insurers as long as a physician recertifies that the person is terminally ill and still meets hospice care requirements.

Insurance coverage:

Hospice is usually covered under Medicare, as well as many Medicaid and private insurance plans. With Medicare, there are no deductibles and only limited coinsurance payments for hospice services. In some cases where a person does not have coverage, community donations make services possible.

The person's physician and a hospice medical director certifies terminal illness, and the person (or person with durable power of attorney) elects to receive hospice care and waives the right for Medicare to pay for any other services to treat the terminal illness. Medicare will continue to pay for any services not related to the terminal illness.

What to Expect at the End of Life

Understanding what naturally occurs as death approaches helps families provide appropriate care and reduce anxiety about the dying process.

Physical changes in the final weeks and days:

During this time, a person with dementia may sleep more, decrease their food intake, and interact less with their environment and those around them. Eventually, these symptoms will overlap with symptoms of the dying process.

  • Increased sleeping and reduced responsiveness
  • Decreased interest in food and fluids
  • Difficulty swallowing even small amounts
  • Changes in breathing patterns (rapid breathing followed by slow or paused breathing)
  • Skin color changes with hands and feet becoming cooler or mottled
  • Reduced urination and darker urine
  • Restlessness or agitation that may occur

Providing comfort:

Focus on your loved one's comfort rather than trying to prolong life.

  • Keep them clean and dry
  • Provide gentle mouth care with moistened swabs
  • Use soft music, gentle touch, and calm presence
  • Pain medications and anti-anxiety medications can be administered even when the person can't swallow, through patches, sublingual drops, or suppositories

Many families find comfort in being present, holding hands, speaking softly, and saying goodbye during these final hours and days. Hospice staff guide families through this process and help ensure the person remains comfortable.

How CareThru Supports End-of-Life Planning

Organizing advance care documents: Store copies of advance directives, POLST forms, DNR orders, and healthcare power of attorney documents where family members and medical providers can access them. Having these documents readily available ensures wishes are honored during medical emergencies.

Coordinating with hospice teams: Track hospice visits, medication changes, symptom patterns, and care recommendations. Share this information among family members so everyone understands the current care plan and any changes.

Supporting family communication: When multiple family members are involved, ensure everyone has access to updates about your loved one's condition, hospice services being provided, and any decisions that need to be made. Clear communication prevents misunderstandings during emotionally difficult times.

Documenting end-of-life wishes: Record conversations about preferences for care, meaningful religious or spiritual practices, people the person wants present, and other personal wishes. This information helps ensure the dying process honors your loved one's values and beliefs.

Frequently Asked Questions About Late-Stage Dementia and Hospice

How do I know when my loved one is actually dying versus just having a bad day?

The dying process in dementia typically involves consistent decline over days or weeks rather than just a bad day. Look for multiple signs occurring together including markedly decreased eating and drinking for several days, increased sleeping with difficulty arousing, changes in breathing patterns, and inability to swallow even liquids. Hospice nurses are trained to recognize these signs and can help families understand when death is likely imminent, usually within days to weeks.

Can hospice help if my loved one is in a nursing home?

Yes. Hospice care can be provided wherever your loved one lives, including nursing homes, assisted living communities, or memory care facilities. Hospice partners with the facility to provide an extra layer of one-on-one care and attention including complementary therapies, enhanced pain management, and family support. This collaboration often improves care quality and family satisfaction.

What if my loved one lives longer than six months on hospice?

Hospice services can continue as long as needed. If someone lives beyond six months, a physician must recertify every 60 days that the person still meets hospice criteria. Many people with dementia remain on hospice for extended periods because predicting exact life expectancy with dementia is difficult. As long as the disease continues progressing and life expectancy remains six months or less, care continues.

Should we use feeding tubes when swallowing becomes difficult?

Research consistently shows that feeding tubes in advanced dementia do not prolong life, prevent aspiration pneumonia, improve nutrition, or enhance quality of life. In fact, feeding tubes can cause complications, physical restraint to prevent tube removal, and loss of the pleasure that careful hand feeding provides. Most hospice and palliative care experts recommend against feeding tubes in advanced dementia, focusing instead on comfort feeding.

Is it wrong to stop treating infections with antibiotics?

No. In end-stage dementia, treating every infection may prolong suffering rather than improve quality of life. Many families and healthcare providers choose to focus on comfort measures rather than aggressive antibiotic treatment for recurrent infections. This doesn't mean withholding all care. Fever and discomfort can be managed with medications that provide relief without attempting to cure underlying infections. Discuss goals of care with your hospice team.

How do we manage pain when our loved one can't communicate?

Hospice teams are specially trained to assess pain in non-verbal patients through observing facial expressions, body movements, sounds, breathing patterns, and changes in behavior. Pain can be managed through medications given via patches, liquid drops under the tongue, or suppositories. Regular assessment and adjustment of pain medications ensure comfort even when the person cannot verbally report pain.

What happens after death? Does hospice still help?

Yes. Hospice provides bereavement support for families typically for 13 months following death. This includes counseling, support groups, memorial services, and resources for processing grief. Hospice staff also assists with immediate after-death procedures, contacting funeral homes, and answering questions about what happens next. This continued support helps families navigate grief after their loved one's death.

Can we change our minds about hospice or stop certain treatments later?

Absolutely. Hospice care is always voluntary and can be stopped at any time. If your loved one's condition improves or you decide to pursue curative treatment, you can disenroll from hospice. Similarly, treatment decisions can be revisited. You might initially decline feeding tubes but later reconsider, or vice versa. Advance directives can be modified. The goal is honoring your loved one's wishes and ensuring comfort, not rigidly following early decisions.

Disclaimer: This article provides general information about late-stage dementia and hospice care. It is not a substitute for professional medical advice, legal counsel, or individualized end-of-life planning. Every person's experience with advanced dementia is unique. Always consult with qualified healthcare providers, hospice professionals, and eldercare attorneys when making decisions about end-of-life care. This article does not constitute medical advice about specific treatment decisions, which must be made in consultation with physicians who know your loved one's complete medical situation.

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